Reducing Sexism in English by David A. Lillie
Abstract: Use of "man, his, him" in English to indicate both genders can be seen as a remnant of sexism in our culture reflected in our language. The correction of this problem has been attempted by various techniques, none of which are felt to be satisfactory. This paper provides the simple solution (perhaps difficult to implement) of adding new, gender neutral pronouns (wom, wem, hes, hir, hirs) to the language to be used specifically for this purpose. The current gender specific words would continue to be used to refer to people of known gender.
By making the term "man" subsume "woman" and arrogate to itself the representation of all of humanity, men have built a conceptual error of vast proportion into all of their thought. By taking the half for the whole, they have not only missed the essence of whatever they are describing, but they have distorted it in such a fashion that they cannot see it correctly . . . The androcentric fallacy, which is built into all the mental constructs of Western civilization, cannot be rectified by "adding women." What it demands for rectification is a radical restructuring of thought and analysis which once and for all accepts the fact that humanity consists in equal parts of men and women.
-- Gerda Lerner, The creation of Patriarchy (New York: Oxford
University Press, 1986), p. 220
For many years I have been frustrated by the built-in sexism
in English, the result of having pronouns corresponding to male
and female or neuter objects, but none that refer inclusively to
male or female. In the past, most likely due to our society's
patriarchal structures, the male pronouns "he, his,
him" were used for this purpose, and the noun
"man" was used to refer to all humans. Our English
education is supposed to train us to accept these words as
referring to both genders when used in a
“neutral” context. A careful study by Janet
Shibley Hyde (𠇌hildren’s Understanding of
Sexist Language,” Developmental Psychology - Journal of
the American Psychology Association, 1984) shows that this often
doesn't happen, and that all age groups studied, from 5 years old
to 20 years old, and both genders, are much more likely to write
stories about male subjects when prompted by sentences using the
supposedly gender-neutral male pronouns. Her summary states,
“...it is clear that the tendency for subjects to think
of males when they hear "he" in a gender-neutral
context (story-telling data) is present from first grade through
the college years. ...The contributions of language to sex role
development are deserving of considerably more attention, both
theoretical and empirically."
After trying a variety of ways around this problem, such as
using "he or she," s/he, "himself or
herself," etc., or alternating paragraphs with male and
female pronouns, I decided that what is needed is to extend the
English language. Now that this situation has been recognized,
there is no need to continue to write clumsy expressions or
confusing gender references. We can simply coin new words that
mean what we want, declare their definitions, and begin the
process of spreading them around the world until they are
commonly used, just like other words which are constantly being
added to the language.
The male words would then be properly used only to refer to
known male beings.
Considerations in Coining the New Words
The Coins
New Word followed by Construction
wom, womkind this word is composed of the letter "w" from woman, "m" from man, and "o," which is the symbol of the circle, signifying unity and connection. The opposite order of the letters, "mow," can't be used, as it is a common existing word. This word would also be used as a syllable to replace the use of "man" in words like Chairman, Mailman, etc. Pronounced as wom in wombat.
wem derived from wom, but using "e" for the plural, as in "men." (could also be used for unisex bathrooms). Pronunciation rhymes with "hem."
hes this word consists of the letters in "she," which also contains "he," but in a different order to make a new word. Pronunciation rhymes with "fez."
hir takes letters from "her" and "him," combined to make a new word. Pronounced "here" to distinguish it from "her."
hirs the possessive form of her has an "s" added when there is no object, as: "That scalpel is hers." By always having the "s" for the possessive, it is similar to the masculine form - "his."
To summarize, here are my suggestions for replacing the old words with new, gender inclusive words:
Old followed by New
man, mankind wom, womkind (pronounced as wom in wombat)
men or women wem (rhymes with hem)
he or she hes (rhymes with fez)
him or her hir (pronounced same as here)
his or her(s) hirs (pronounced same as here's)
himself or herself hirself
chairperson chairwom
(other obvious compound words may be created as needed)
Sample Gender Neutral Text
Old Way, "Neutral" Male Pronouns: -- No man is an island unto himself
It was good to see that mankind had achieved equality of the sexes in English. Now, whenever someone read a book or listened to a speech, he would not feel ashamed of himself, or lose any of his dignity because of the way his gender was used or ignored. Of course, no one can really take away inherent human dignity from him, it is his from the moment of birth, and is only obscured by the oppressive actions of men or women in his life.
Old Way, Inclusive but Clumsy: -- No man or woman is an island unto himself or herself
It was good to see that mankind had achieved equality of the sexes in English. Now, whenever someone read a book or listened to a speech, he or she would not feel ashamed of himself or herself, or lose any of his or her dignity because of the way his or her gender was used or ignored. Of course, no one can really take away inherent human dignity from him or her, it is his or hers from the moment of birth and is only obscured by the oppressive actions of men or women in his or her life.
Alternative Way, Reworded and Incorrect Plurals: -- No one is an island unto themself (themselves?)
It was good to see that humanity had achieved equality of the sexes in English. Now, whenever someone read a book or listened to a speech, they would not feel ashamed of themselves, or lose any of their dignity because of the way their gender was used or ignored. Of course, no one can really take away inherent human dignity from another, it is theirs from the moment of birth and only obscured by the oppressive actions of others in their life.
New Way: -- No wom is an island unto hirself
It was good to see that womkind had achieved equality of the sexes in English. Now, whenever someone read a book or listened to a speech, hes would not feel ashamed of hirself, or lose any of hirs dignity because of the way hirs gender was used or ignored. Of course, no one can really take away inherent human dignity from hir, it is hirs from the moment of birth and is only obscured by the oppressive actions of wem in hir life.
Implementation
These new gender inclusive pronouns could achieve rapid acceptance if used by only a few people in the media, writers, teachers, etc. Each early use of them will require a preface to explain their use, and perhaps a footnote on each of them the first time it is used. After that, readers will pick up the idea quickly. This requires some extra effort by authors and editors, but it is better than the current situation, where concerned (or resistant) authors may spend from one paragraph to a full page explaining why they do or don't make any attempt to correct this flaw in English. I have also heard lecturers spend five minutes at the beginning of their talks explaining why they use one pronoun (either male or female), rather than try to include both.
A sample paragraph to include at the beginning of an article or the inside cover of a pamphlet might be:
To simplify the text while avoiding unintended gender references, the words "he or she" are replaced by "hes," "him or her" by "hir," "his or her(s)" by "hirs," "man" (as in mankind) by "wom," and "men or women" by "wem." These words will be footnoted for the first occurrence to aid in this translation. Gender neutral "man, he, him, his, etc." Are not used in this text.
At some point, these newly coined words will be used in schools and popular songs, and we will no longer need the excuses, prefaces or footnotes.
Sample Dictionary Entries for These Words
wom (wom as in wombat) n., pl. wem,
1. humanity as representing everyone in the species, without reference to sex , all genders; the human race; humankind: The family of wom.
wom-kind (wom' kind') n.
1. human beings collectively without reference to sex, all genders; humankind: One small step for man, one giant leap for Womkind. See wom.
chair-wom (châr' wom) n., pl. -wem, v., -wom-ed, -wom-ing
1. the convener of a meeting, committee, etc., or the head of various business groups, without reference to sex, including all genders. Nominations are now open for chairwom.
(many other words could be defined in combining forms)
hes (hes, rhymes with fez) pron., nom. hes, poss. hirs, obj. hir; pl. nom. they, poss. their or theirs, obj. them; n., pl. heses
1. anyone (without reference to sex, all genders) ; that person: Hes who gives love receives love in return.
hir-self (him self') pron.
1. a reflexive form of hir (used as the direct or indirect object of a verb or as the object of a preposition) for collective references without reference to sex, including all genders: Womkind does not appreciate hirself. Hes who truly knows hirself will prosper.
What do you think about this idea? Please write me and give me your comments and suggestions.
David A. Lillie davey at greens dot org
1750 30th St. # 348
Boulder, CO 80301-1036
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Last updated 9 Jan 2008
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